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Guardianship: Choosing, Asking, and Documenting

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Guardianship is the question behind every other estate planning question for new parents. If both parents are gone or incapacitated, who raises this child? The answer is not automatic. Without a documented nomination, a court decides, using whatever information is available, on whatever timeline the system allows. With a nomination in a valid will, the same court has a clear starting point and, in the vast majority of cases, follows it. This guide covers how to evaluate candidates, how to have the conversation, how the legal categories differ, what a letter of intent contains, why one name is never enough, and when to revisit the whole decision.

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Every figure checked against official sources; last reviewed August 2026. Mothers Plan provides information and organization, not legal, tax, financial, or medical advice.