Setting Your Return Date

Part of the Learning Center · included with Baby's First Year

A return date looks like one square on a calendar. It is actually a coordination point. It connects job-protection rights to employer planning and health coverage to premium obligations. It ties the childcare start to actual availability and one parent's schedule to the other's. Getting it right is less about picking the perfect moment and more about understanding what five different systems need from that date and when changes are still possible. This guide maps those systems and the mechanics for adjusting them.

What this guide covers

· What the return date actually controls
· What reinstatement means under federal law
· Changing the date: extending, shortening, or not returning
· Benefits at the boundary: insurance, premiums, and the COBRA trigger
· Aligning childcare with the return
· The partial-week return
· State programs and additional protections
· Where the plan comes in

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Sources this guide is verified against

U.S. Department of Labor, Fact Sheet #28A: Employee Protections under the Family and Medical Leave Act: https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/fact-sheets/28a-fmla-employee-protections
U.S. Department of Labor, Fact Sheet #28Q: Taking Leave from Work for Birth, Placement, and Bonding with a Child under the FMLA: https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/fact-sheets/28q-taking-leave-for-birth-placement-child
U.S. Department of Labor, Fact Sheet #28E: Employee Notice Requirements under the FMLA: https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/fact-sheets/28e-fmla-employee-notice
29 CFR 825.214, Employee right to reinstatement: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.214
29 CFR 825.215, Equivalent position: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.215
29 CFR 825.217, Key employee, general rule: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.217
29 CFR 825.219, Rights of a key employee: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.219
29 CFR 825.120, Leave for pregnancy or birth: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-A/section-825.120
29 CFR 825.202, Intermittent leave or reduced leave schedule: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.202
29 CFR 825.209, Maintenance of employee benefits: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.209
29 CFR 825.210, Employee payment of group health benefit premiums: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.210
29 CFR 825.213, Employer recovery of benefit costs: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-B/section-825.213
29 CFR 825.311, Intent to return to work: https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-29/subtitle-B/chapter-V/subchapter-C/part-825/subpart-C/section-825.311
26 CFR 54.4980B-10, Interaction of FMLA and COBRA: https://www.law.cornell.edu/cfr/text/26/54.4980B-10
U.S. Department of Labor, COBRA Continuation Coverage: https://www.dol.gov/agencies/ebsa/laws-and-regulations/laws/cobra
U.S. Department of Labor, FAQs on COBRA Continuation Health Coverage for Workers: https://www.dol.gov/agencies/ebsa/about-ebsa/our-activities/resource-center/faqs/cobra-continuation-health-coverage-workers
U.S. Department of Labor, State Paid Family and Medical Leave Laws: https://www.dol.gov/agencies/wb/paid-leave/State-Paid-Family-Medical-Leave-Laws
New York State, Paid Family Leave, Your Rights and Protections: https://paidfamilyleave.ny.gov/protections

Every figure checked against official sources; last reviewed August 2026. Mothers Plan provides information and organization, not legal, tax, financial, or medical advice.